Most commonly best friends don’t like the boyfriend because:

1. They Are Jealous- plain and simple jealousy. She wants what you have and doesn’t want you to have it. If this is the case she is not your BFF for life she is a hater and needs to be disposed of immediately.
2. You Neglect Your BFF- sometimes when women get boyfriends they get so caught up in the relationship that they forget about everyone else around them. They don’t acquire the skill of how to manage time between the boyfriend and others such as the BFF. Stop to think if this may be you. If it is, the simple solution is to include your best friend in your life don’t push her away because if things don’t work out who’s shoulder will you be crying on?
3. She’s Trying to Protect You- maybe there are negative things your BFF knows about your boyfriend that she has failed to share with you. Maybe this is because she thinks you may not believe her or maybe she heard some sort of rumor. This is what BFF’s are for, to help you see things you can not when you’re blinded by love. Maybe her thoughts are valid check him out and observe him for yourself. Although he is great today, tomorrow he can be completely different.
4. He is Rude and Disrespects Your BFF- when the two of them are together does he put her down, tell jokes about her that she doesn’t find amusing, yell at her, call her names or any other behaviors that would make her feel uncomfortable? If this is the case you need to drop that man no questions asked, period.
5. He is a Bad Influence On You- have you changed who you are to fit in with him? Did you lose your identity and pick up his? Think about the things that you did before you were with him and the things you’ve been doing since you have been together. Have you become a better person or worse? You should never change who you are or your values for anyone, especially for a man. Keeping you self-respect is key in life and you don’t want to lose sight of that.
6. He’s a Bum- this guy is just a good for nothing waste of space. He eats all your food, stays at your house rent free, drives your car since he doesn’t have one of his own, barely works, spends your money and who knows what else. Some women enjoy being caregivers if this is you, so be it. But understand that your BFF wants the best for you and she, nor I, can see how this adds to your life. A relationship should be something that is uplifting and not a burden. Your partner needs to bring something to the table otherwise he will continue to take things from that table. Decide what you want and ask your BFF to respect your decision.